Dear Nenen,

This is difficult to discuss but I want people to know that this Is happening right here in our sweet country.

I’ve been married to my husband for ten years. Recently, I noticed changes in how he treats me, how he touches me etc. I suspected him of having an affair but what shocked me was that it was a man. Yes, a hard-back man. 

God help me Nenen but I don’t know how to deal with that. Do you assist with murder coverups?

Really Distraught

Dear Distraught,

Resorting to violence is NOT the answer so here is how I think you should deal with this matter. 

If you believe there is no way to resolve this matter so that you continue in this relationship, I would advise that you seek legal counsel and take the next step which may lead to separation or divorce. 

Additionally, find a therapist that you feel comfortable with, who is able to assist you in getting over this bruise to your ego and spend time working on yourself as you move off in your own direction. 

Whatever you do, do not get yourself in any trouble with the law by doing anything that will physically harm your husband. 

Really concerned

Nenen